Watch the full conversation above, then read on for the essential strategies that will help you create a co-parenting agreement that protects your children's future. Creating a parenting plan is one of the most emotionally difficult parts of divorce. No parent starts a family thinking, "I'm only going to have my kids for a certain percentage of the time." But here's the thing—a well-crafted parenting plan can save you thousands in legal fees, protect your relationship with yo

How to Co-Parent with a High-Conflict Ex: Strategies That Actually Work If you're co-parenting with someone who's high-conflict or toxic, you know how exhausting it is. You're juggling custody schedules, managing big emotions, and trying not to fall into old patterns that kept you stuck for so long. I sat down with certified divorce coach Leah Marie Mazur to talk about what actually works when you're dealing with a narcissistic, manipulative, or just flat-out difficult co-par

What's Actually Happening in Your Brain During Divorce—and How to Fix It You're not imagining it. The brain fog, the inability to focus, the way you keep replaying painful conversations on an endless loop—there's actual neuroscience behind what you're experiencing during divorce. I sat down with neuroscientist Dr. Nicole A. Tetreault to understand exactly what's happening in our brains during one of life's most stressful transitions. What she shared wasn't just fascinating—i

Let's talk about the elephant in the room. What does divorce actually cost? It's the question I get asked more than any other. And honestly, it's the one that makes people the most anxious. So I sat down with family law attorney Dennis Vetrano Jr.—who's been practicing for 25 years and handles 60 to 100 divorce consultations every single month—to get the real answer. And when I say real, I mean it. Dennis doesn't sugarcoat anything. Which is exactly why I love talking to him.

Watch the 25-minute video conversation above. Expert CDFA Advice on QDROs, Tax Strategies, and Protecting Your Financial Future When you're going through a divorce, the last thing you want to deal with is figuring out how to split up retirement accounts, who had what before marriage, what was earned during, and so on. But this is exactly the stuff you need to understand so you don't make expensive mistakes that'll haunt you for decades. I recently sat down with Certified Divo

High-Conflict Co-Parenting: How to Protect Your Kids With a Bulletproof Parenting Plan Does your co-parent make every interaction about drama instead of putting your kids first? That's not normal co-parenting—that's toxic behavior, and it requires a completely different approach. I sat down with parenting plan expert Samantha Boss, who specializes in high-conflict co-parenting situations. Samantha knows how to deal with manipulative co-parents who show up late on purpose, bad

One of the biggest decisions you'll make about divorce is what process to go through, but most people have no clue what the real differences are. I brought back family law attorney Renée Turner to break down collaborative divorce versus mediation in practical terms—not just the fancy descriptions you see online. We talked for 25 minutes about what each process actually looks like day-to-day, which one works when you've got complicated finances, and the red flags that mean you

You know that feeling when you're lying awake at 2 AM, staring at the ceiling, asking yourself the same question that's been haunting you for months—maybe years: "Should I stay or should I go?" It's one of the most isolating places to be. You feel stuck in what feels like relationship purgatory, not fully in your marriage but not ready to leave either. If this sounds familiar, you're definitely not alone. I recently had an incredible conversation with Betsy Pake , midlife cha

Thinking about your retirement during divorce might sound premature, but your best bet to stay on track to achieve your goals is to educate yourself on how your long-term financial plans will be effected by divorce. How to Prepare for Retirement During Divorce: A Financial Survival Guide Divorce when you're staring down the barrel of retirement can feel absolutely terrifying. Maybe you've been married for 20+ years, and suddenly you're facing the reality of splitting everythi

So excited to be joining forces with C.D.F.A.and financial powerhouse Josephti Cruz! When you're facing divorce, the financial aspects often create the most anxiety. Not because they’re complicated (though they can be), but because they represent something much deeper: your future security, peace of mind, and ability to move forward with confidence. “Will I be okay financially?” “Can I keep my home?” “What will happen to my retirement?” These questions don’t just occupy your

This 20 minute conversation is packed with meaningful info for people navigating divorce after 50. In a recent insightful conversation, Divorce Prep Coach Alex Beattie of The Divorce Planner sat down with Michigan-based family law attorney Jorin Rubin to discuss the unique challenges of "gray divorce" – divorces occurring among couples aged 50 and older. Their conversation revealed critical insights about navigating divorce later in life, from financial considerations to le

Divorce brings a multitude of challenges, and navigating the complex financial landscape is often among the most daunting. When it comes to dividing assets and establishing new financial foundations, most people think primarily of attorneys, mediators, and perhaps financial advisors. However, there's a specialized professional who can make a tremendous difference in your divorce outcome, particularly when real estate and mortgages are involved: the Certified Divorce Lending P

Watch the above 20 minute conversation to learn expert tips for SAHMs facing divorce. Navigating Divorce as a Stay-at-Home Mom: Key Insights from Family Law Attorney Sharie Reyes Albers When you're facing divorce as a stay-at-home mom, the financial and legal landscape can feel overwhelming. Without your own income stream and possibly years away from career growth, divorce presents the stay-at-home mom unique challenges that working spouses simply don't encounter. In this rec

Josephti Cruz breaks down what a CDFA does and how working with one during divorce is a game changer. When navigating divorce, most people focus heavily on finding the right attorney. While legal representation is essential, there's another professional who could significantly impact your financial future: a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA). In our recent conversation with CDFA and wealth management expert Josephti Cruz of Cover Your Assets Divorce Financial Planni

Building the right parenting plan for you start with understanding what points to include. When it comes to navigating divorce with children, few elements are as important—or as challenging—as creating an effective parenting plan. This critical document will guide your co-parenting relationship for years to come, yet many parents struggle to develop plans that truly work for their unique situations. Subscribe to The Divorce Planner's newsletter and get divorce prep tips and

This comprehensive companion guide captures the key insights and expands on the strategies shared by Relationship Coach Kim Polinder. and Divorce Prep Coach Alex Beattie. Watch the full conversation above, then use this guide as your reference for preparation and next steps. Subscribe to The Divorce Planner's newsletter  and get divorce prep tips and tools delivered right to your inbox! Key Moments from Our Discussion Setting the Foundation During this segment, Kim shared inv

Finding your footing during divorce can feel overwhelming, especially as a mother. In this powerful 25-minute conversation, The Divorce Planner founder, divorce prep coach Alex Beattie , speaks with transformational coach Leah Marie Mazur to explore essential strategies for mothers navigating this challenging life transition. You'll discover practical advice, emotional support, and a roadmap for moving forward with confidence. We combined our expertise to offer a compassionat

You know those conversations that just light you up inside? The ones where you walk away feeling more inspired, more understood, and maybe even a little bit lighter? That's exactly what happened when I chatted with Hillary Livingston Giddings and Bethany M. Pace from Sincerely Divorced . (Watch our full chat in the video above - trust me, you won't want to miss their infectious energy!) Subscribe to The Divorce Planner's newsletter  and get divorce prep tips and tools deliver

Transform Your Divorce Journey: Expert Insights & Empowerment In the powerful conversation below, divorce preparation expert Alex Beattie  joins forces with renowned "comeback coach" Joanna Nisioti  to reveal how divorce can become your gateway to profound personal transformation. Subscribe to The Divorce Planner's newsletter  and get divorce prep tips and tools delivered right to your inbox! Key Takeaways from This Expert Discussion: How to rediscover yourself after feeling

In this 20 minute video, Divorce Prep Coach and founder of The Divorce Planner Alex Beattie and had a eye-opening conversation with certified divorce financial planner and wealth management specialist Josephti Cruz of The Wealth Garden Financial Services about about uncovering hidden assets during divorce. Divorce is a journey that many navigate with a slew of questions about what the future holds. It's a period marked by change, discovery, and, importantly, the division o