Watch the full conversation above, then read on for the essential strategies that will help you create a co-parenting agreement that protects your children's future. Creating a parenting plan is one of the most emotionally difficult parts of divorce. No parent starts a family thinking, "I'm only going to have my kids for a certain percentage of the time." But here's the thing—a well-crafted parenting plan can save you thousands in legal fees, protect your relationship with yo

How to Co-Parent with a High-Conflict Ex: Strategies That Actually Work If you're co-parenting with someone who's high-conflict or toxic, you know how exhausting it is. You're juggling custody schedules, managing big emotions, and trying not to fall into old patterns that kept you stuck for so long. I sat down with certified divorce coach Leah Marie Mazur to talk about what actually works when you're dealing with a narcissistic, manipulative, or just flat-out difficult co-par

Should Your Tween or Teen Dictate Your Post-Divorce Parenting Schedule? Insights from Psychologist Dr. Lisa Damour Figuring out custody is one of the most emotionally brutal parts of divorce. I know this from experience. When I was going through my own divorce, we got through the finances, the property, all of it. But when we sat down to talk about the parenting schedule? I had to leave the room because I became emotionally overwhelmed. No one has kids thinking they're going

Protect Your Kids and Your Peace With a Detailed Parenting Plan That Leaves No Loopholes Does your co-parent make every interaction about drama instead of putting your kids first? That's not normal co-parenting—that's toxic behavior, and it requires a completely different approach. When you're dealing with a manipulative co-parent who shows up late on purpose, badmouths you to the kids, and turns every pickup into a power struggle, you need more than a basic parenting plan. Y

High-Conflict Co-Parenting: How to Protect Your Kids With a Bulletproof Parenting Plan Does your co-parent make every interaction about drama instead of putting your kids first? That's not normal co-parenting—that's toxic behavior, and it requires a completely different approach. I sat down with parenting plan expert Samantha Boss, who specializes in high-conflict co-parenting situations. Samantha knows how to deal with manipulative co-parents who show up late on purpose, bad

With some thoughtful planning, you can turn summer during divorce from “yuck”  to “yeah!" Summer is supposed to be the season of freedom and fun for kids—but if you’re navigating divorce, you know it can bring a whole different set of challenges. I’ve worked with countless families who dread the approach of summer break, worried about custody schedules, vacation conflicts, and how their kids will handle all the changes. Here’s what I want you to know: your kids can absolutely

Building the right parenting plan for you start with understanding what points to include. When it comes to navigating divorce with children, few elements are as important—or as challenging—as creating an effective parenting plan. This critical document will guide your co-parenting relationship for years to come, yet many parents struggle to develop plans that truly work for their unique situations. Subscribe to The Divorce Planner newsletter and get divorce prep tips and to

Divorce is more than just a separation between two adults; it also represents a significant change in a child's life, especially when it comes to transitioning between two homes. Understanding how to support your child through this journey can help alleviate some of the strain and ensure that they continue to feel secure and loved. This comprehensive guide will provide insights into fostering a smooth transition for your children during and after divorce. The above 20 minute

With the right tools, children can thrive after a divorce. Divorce is a life altering event, and not just for you and your spouse, but for your children as well. Your family dynamic is changing, and kids need to know that they'll be safe and loved throughout this big transition. As parents, it's so important to ensure that your children navigate this change as smoothly as possible. But being a guide through this process requires conscious steps to help your children cope, und

Discover effective strategies for navigating high-conflict co-parenting during divorce, fostering peace for the sake of your children.