One of the first questions people ask me when they're thinking about divorce is: "How do I find a good lawyer?" Not just any lawyer. A good one. Someone who's experienced, reasonable, won't drain your bank account unnecessarily, and actually gets what you're going through. It's one of the most important decisions you'll make during this process—and one of the most overwhelming. Because how are you supposed to evaluate something you've never done before? How do you know if som

The decision-making framework I created during my own divorce — and now use with every single client — to help you stop making choices from fear and start making them from strategy. Divorce is chess, not checkers. Every move you make has consequences that ripple out for years — so make them count. When I was going through my own divorce, I was completely overwhelmed by the sheer number of decisions I had to make. Big ones, small ones, financial ones, emotional ones—they just

Let's be honest: choosing a divorce attorney is one of the most important decisions you'll make during this process. And it's also one of the most intimidating. You're supposed to interview them like you're hiring for a job, but you're doing it while you're stressed, overwhelmed, and probably have no idea what you're even looking for. I get it. I've been there. So let me walk you through exactly how to choose an attorney who's the right fit—not just for your case, but for you

Made it through another holiday season thinking “I can’t do this one more year”? You’re not alone. Divorce attorneys see a 33% increase in January. January has a hidden nickname in the legal world: Divorce Month. Why January Is Called “Divorce Month” Family law attorneys brace for a surge of calls starting the first week of January. Divorce-related Google searches skyrocket. And by March, divorce filings hit their annual peak. But is January really when most people divorce?

One of the biggest decisions you'll make about divorce is what process to go through, but most people have no clue what the real differences are. I brought back family law attorney Renée Turner to break down collaborative divorce versus mediation in practical terms—not just the fancy descriptions you see online. We talked for 25 minutes about what each process actually looks like day-to-day, which one works when you've got complicated finances, and the red flags that mean you

The strategic framework that turns overwhelming decisions into clear action steps Divorce can feel like a big game of chess. Every move you make has consequences—some you see immediately, others that don't reveal themselves until it's too late. Subscribe to The Divorce Planner newsletter  and get divorce prep tips and tools delivered right to your inbox! A client of mine came to me insisting that she wanted to keep the family home and most of the retirement accounts. It felt

You can get just about anything online these days: a first date, wedding registry, and a divorce. Is an online divorce service right for you? Yep, you read that right. Getting divorced online is now as common as ordering your morning coffee through an app. But before you start thinking divorce is as simple as adding items to your Amazon cart, let's pump the brakes and talk about what online divorce services actually are, how they work, and whether they're right for your situa

Going into divorce negotiations prepared ensures you'll end up with a satisfying outcome. "Divorce negotiations are fun!" said no one ever. Even in the best of circumstances, divorce negotiations often become battlegrounds where emotions run high and rational decision-making takes a backseat. Going into the process unfamiliar or unprepared for the negotiation process is a recipe for disaster that can haunt you for years to come. But that's not going to happen to you because I

This 20 minute conversation is a great place to start your collaborative divorce education. When a divorce enters your life, the path forward can seem overwhelmingly steep. Images of courtroom battles, endless legal fees, and emotional devastation often flood our minds. But what if there was another way? A path that prioritizes dignity, communication, and solutions that work for everyone involved? I recently sat down with family law attorney Renée Turner to discuss collabora

The stakes for SAHM's during divorce are high, so preparation is key for a successful split. Divorce can be a challenging chapter in anyone’s life, but as a stay-at-home mom, you may face unique concerns. You've dedicated your time to nurturing your family, and now it’s time to focus on nurturing you  and your future. Whether a divorce is something you've been considering for awhile now, or if the idea of one was just sprung on you by your spouse, taking action and preparing