Peacefully living with a soon-to-be-ex during a separation or divorce IS possible. Cohabitating with a spouse during separation or divorce is not an ideal situation for many, but sometimes it's an unavoidable reality. Whether it’s due to financial constraints, the welfare of children, or simply the need for a gradual transition, sharing a living space as you’re severing marital ties is a challenge that many couples face. Practical Reasons for Cohabitation During Separation F

The divorce process can seem like you have a on long laundry list of things to-do, most of them feeling endless and no fun! One of the most daunting can be the process of reassessing estate plans, wills, and trusts. This 20 minute conversation between divorce prep coach Alex Beattie (A.K.A. The Divorce Planner) and estate planning attorney Mindy H. Stern, sheds light on the crucial steps individuals need to take to secure their financial future during divorce. Here's what you

An amicable divorce benefits you both emotionally and financially. It's been proven that navigating through the ending of a marriage is one of life's most emotionally taxing experiences. An amicable divorce offers a path that can significantly lessen both the emotional and economic burdens often associated with the divorce process. By focusing on mutual respect, open communication, and a shared goal of coming to an equitable agreement, couples can turn a new leaf with dignit

The decision to end a marriage is multifaceted, deeply personal, and requires careful consideration. One of the pivotal steps in this process is consulting a divorce attorney. It marks the transition from contemplation to action. But when exactly is the right time to make that move? And once you decide to take that step, how do you prepare for it? Subscribe to The Divorce Planner's newsletter  and get divorce prep tips and tools delivered right to your inbox! The above 20 min

Gen X Has Always Done Things Differently. Divorce Is No Exception. No one generation is immune to the end of a marriage, but how we handle a separation or divorce is a real reflection on the ideals and values we hold as truths. Generation X has always done things differently, and they've applied that mindset to divorce. A groundbreaking study by Divorce-Online has shed new light on the phenomenon that has long intrigued both the general public and experts alike: the 'Seven-Ye

The landscape of divorce is evolving , and with the rise of digital platforms, the process is becoming more accessible and user-friendly. In a pivotal 20-minute conversation, The Divorce Planner’s Alex Beattie had an in-depth discussion with Liz Pharo, the visionary CEO of Divorce.com , providing a wealth of information and insights for anyone considering online divorce services. Subscribe to The Divorce Planner's newsletter  and get divorce prep tips and tools delivered rig

One of my favorite parts of The Divorce Planner's platform is the ongoing interview series I have with a myriad of divorce professionals. From divorce attorneys to mediators, to financial planners to therapist and more, bringing you valuable insights and tips that make your divorce journey easier is my mission. The bedrock of The Divorce Planner's coaching philosophy is that there is an emotional side to divorce and a business side, and that they need to be separated and addr

Surrendering During Hard Times Can Be The Most Empowering Action You Can Take One of the hardest things about going through a divorce is feeling out of control -- Control over your future, control over the outcome of your divorce, control over how the world sees you, and control over how you see yourself. When I was going through a really deep and dark time of grieving and healing, a friend shared with me what has become a favorite meditation episode by Sarah Blondin from he

Navigating through a divorce comes with its set of challenges, especially when there's property involved. Before making any decisions, it's crucial to be informed about your options. Subscribe to The Divorce Planner newsletter  and get divorce prep tips and tools delivered right to your inbox! One of the biggest assets you might have to negotiate on during a divorce is marital property. Having a clear understanding of all your assets, what type of asset they are, their market

What to do with your assets is one of the biggest things you'll have to tackle during a divorce. Whether it's retirement accounts, artwork, or other valuables, one of the most high-ticket items you might have to consider divvying up is property. Deciding To Keep The Family Home Is Loaded With Emotional and Financial Pitfalls One of the most formidable questions you'll face is whether to keep marital property or sell it. This question needs to be assessed on two fronts: the fi

If You're Not Careful, Divorce Costs Can Quickly Add Up Divorce is one of the most financially draining experiences you can go through. It feels like there's a constant hum of a cash register adding on more costs as you go through the process. Every part of your budget feels the ripple effect of divorce, so preparing yourself before starting the process can help you save hundreds, if not thousands, of dollars. This quick guide aims to help shed light on the actual costs of di

Consulting A Financial Planner During Divorce Can Help You During Negotiations. Divorce is a significant life change, and it's crucial to approach this new beginning with confidence, education, and a supportive community. Everyone who goes through a divorce faces many hurdles, from the emotional labor of managing a household shift to the financial intricacies of separating shared assets. If you're feeling overwhelmed, take a deep breath and remember that knowledge and action

Gray divorce requires unique preparation. A "gray divorce" refers to a divorce that occurs later in life, during a couple's 50s, 60s, 70s, or beyond. While divorce rates have declined overall in recent years, the divorce rate among older adults has doubled since the 1990s. Today, roughly 1 in 4 divorces are gray. There are a number of factors contributing to this trend. People are living longer and staying healthier into old age. With life expectancy increasing, some spouses

Navigating a high-conflict divorce can feel beyond impossible at times. Whether you're going through the negotiation process and every email and doc you get is LOADED with passive/aggressive triggers, or maybe you're trying to communicate with your co-parent and you're feeling shell-shocked by the constant barrage of attacks, or maybe you've been trying to communicate with your soon-to-be-ex and find that no matter what you say, things end up getting heated. Subscribe to The

When You Know Your Divorce Goals, You Have Control Over The Outcome.. When you're preparing for a marital separation or divorce, there is so much on your plate, like figuring out what kind of divorce process you want, when the right time is to meet with a divorce attorney, and what your financial realities are going to look like after your split -- just to name a few. More often than not, people forget one important thing they need to address, namely, what their divorce negot

Divorce insights from a family law attorney. What you need to know for a successful separation and divorce. Tips, tools and expert advice.

Divorce is hard. Preparing for one just got easier. Divorce can be a tough journey, filled with a lot of big emotions and feelings of uncertainty. The fact is that divorce is a life-altering event that requires strength and resilience, even more so when it comes down to taking charge of your emotional well-being and financial security. And life doesn't just stop when you get a divorce, so on top of everything else, you now have to navigate this challenging time while trying t

Divorce can be especially challenging for a stay-at-home parent. With early preparation, you can secure your future. As a stay-at-home parent, you may face unique challenges during the divorce process. You've sacrificed a lot to stay at home and raise children, including earning potential, retirement savings, and career growth opportunities. All of which needs to be taken into account during your divorce negotiations. Society (and some spouses) sometimes undervalues the non-m

Discover effective strategies for navigating high-conflict co-parenting during divorce, fostering peace for the sake of your children.

This conversation provides a financial and emotional roadmap for your divorce journey and offers precious insights and action items!